We should talk about relationships more often—not in the way of gossiping about the people within them, but by reflecting on their essence, their meaning, and the inherent complexity they bring to our lives. Relationships shape who we are, and ignoring their impact would be to overlook one of life’s most profound teachers.
Earlier today, I had the privilege of speaking with my childhood friend. It was one of the most heartwarming conversations I’ve had in a long time. We shared a moment of gratitude for the relationships that define us—the ones that stand as pillars of support no matter what life throws our way. As we reminisced about the warmth these connections bring, we also allowed ourselves to grieve the loss of relationships that didn’t work out despite our best efforts of heart, mind, and spirit.
It’s essential to acknowledge the value these broken connections brought into our lives. Even in their absence, they deepen our understanding of life’s complexity and help us grow in ways we might not have imagined. While moments of joy and success often affirm our choices, it’s the moments of struggle and heartbreak that truly teach us resilience. Pain, as much as we wish to avoid it, is the ultimate guide in our journey to self-discovery and strength.
Among all these reflections, one truth rang loud and clear: our relationship with ourselves is the foundation of every other relationship we have. We walk through life with ourselves, through every high and low. If there is no peace within, if we can’t find harmony in our relationship with ourselves, we will struggle to find peace in our relationships with others.
Life defined by relationships, purpose, and service is undoubtedly more fulfilling than a life devoid of these. The connections we nurture, the meaning we find, and the impact we create collectively weave a life of substance. But it all starts within—with a relationship with ourselves that is grounded in acceptance, kindness, and growth.
As I sit with these thoughts, I am reminded of how life’s truest wealth lies in relationships. Let’s continue to talk about them, honor them, and learn from them—for they are the fabric of a life well-lived.
